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Building Your Relationship with Jesus: What Happens After You Open the Door

Wednesday, September 23, 2026
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BUILDING RELATIONSHIP

Light of the World Today

"Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me."

John 15:4 NIV

Receiving Jesus is the most important decision a person ever makes. But there is a question that most people are left with immediately afterwards that nobody quite prepares them for. Now what? The door is open. Jesus has come in. And the next morning arrives looking exactly like the morning before it. Same job. Same pressures. Same habits. The salvation was real. But nobody explained what a relationship with Jesus is supposed to look like in the actual days that follow.

Think about it this way. Meeting someone for the first time is not the same as knowing them deeply. The moment of introduction is real and it matters enormously. But the relationship is built in everything that comes after it. Every conversation. Every honest moment. Every ordinary day where you showed up and discovered more of who they are. Jesus works the same way. Salvation opens the door. The relationship is built in the daily choice to remain in him.

Mary of Bethany: The Woman Who Chose the Better Thing

Luke 10:38-42 records Mary sitting at the feet of Jesus while her sister Martha was busy preparing food for their guests. Martha eventually became frustrated and asked Jesus to send Mary to help. And Jesus said Martha, Martha, you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed, or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better and it will not be taken away from her.

Mary's choice was not laziness. It was priority. She was fully present with Jesus over everything else competing for her attention. And busyness, even well-intentioned religious busyness, is one of the most effective substitutes for actual relationship that has ever existed. Mary later became the person who anointed Jesus before his crucifixion, an act so significant that Jesus said it would be remembered wherever the gospel is preached in the whole world. Mark 14:9 NIV. The woman who chose presence over performance became the person whose devotion Jesus said would be remembered for ever.

"Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her."

Luke 10:42 NIV

That is what consistent relationship with Jesus produces. Not religious activity that ticks a box. A depth of knowing that eventually overflows into something extraordinary. And it begins with the same simple decision Mary made. Choosing to be genuinely present with him before anything else in the day demands your attention.

Mary sat at Jesus's feet as a daily, deliberate, counter-cultural choice. She did not know it would produce the most celebrated act of devotion in the Gospel record. She just chose him over everything else asking for her attention that afternoon. That same choice, made consistently in the ordinary mornings of your ordinary life, is what builds the relationship. Part 2 tomorrow will show you exactly how to do it every day.

Memory Verse

"Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine."

John 15:4 NIV

A Prayer for Today

Jesus, teach me to remain in you the way Mary sat at your feet. Not as a performance and not only when it is convenient. As the daily, honest and unhurried choice to put you first above every other thing competing for my time this morning. In your name, Amen.

— Amen

Reflection

  • 1Mary chose Jesus over every other thing competing for her attention that afternoon. What is the one thing that most consistently takes the time and attention that your relationship with Jesus actually requires? What one practical change this week would begin to give the relationship what it genuinely needs? "Mary has chosen what is better." Luke 10:42 NIV
  • 2John 15:4 says a branch cannot bear fruit unless it remains in the vine. Looking honestly at your daily life, are you remaining in Jesus or drawing on your own resources and checking in with him only occasionally? "Remain in me, as I also remain in you." John 15:4 NIV
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